Here is Gavin being tortured by having all the food put in front of him... and this kid LOVES food.
Thursday, November 27, 2008
Thanksgiving and more family!
We had a great day today, and learned many new things! Jason and I went up to Lafayette, TN where Jason's paternal grandparents are. Papa Wayne's sister, her husband, their daughter, and her husband were all there from Oklahoma and Texas, so we got to meet some more new family. :) We also got to hear a TON of family stories and see a bunch of family history that they have compiled over the last few years... all the way back to Jason's great-great-great-great-great grandparents!!! Yes, that's 5 greats! Jason's pretty excited about finally knowing where he came from, and meeting more extended family. But besides that... we also had a TON of great food!!
Here is Gavin being tortured by having all the food put in front of him... and this kid LOVES food.
The table of food... minus the desserts and a few last minute food dishes.
Finally Gavin was given a piece of turkey. Did I mention this kid LOVES to eat??
After eating, we decided to do a little bit of shooting handguns. Lee (Jason's first-cousin-once-removed's husband) is shooting, with Garrett behind, Jason, and Robert (Jason's uncle) in orange.
Uncle Robert shooting one handed (haha), with Jason and Lee reloading the other gun... and Garrett at the bottom keeping his ears plugged.
All the men... Josh is on the far right... all the rest are the same as previous pictures.
How many guys does it take to load a gun?? Apparently 4.
The brothers shooting... Jason and Josh.
Laurie (Jason's first-cousin-once-removed) shooting the gun with Uncle Robert watching.
And me shooting (horribly, I might add), with Laurie looking for a bullet behind me lol...
And Jason holding Papa Wayne's 30-30.
And here's Garrett in his Peter Pan pants... well really they are Gavin's pants, but Garrett had to wear them while his were being washed... use your imagination.
Mammer and Carrol (Papa Wayne's sister) behind Papa Wayne. Do you like Papa Wayne's monk outfit? It's really a blanket thing with arms in it, but it really makes him look like a monk...
See? Papa Wayne started acting like a monk and saying pretend Latin... it was pretty funny.
And finally... here's Mammer with her double nurf dart gun action! She was ready to kick some serious hind end!!
We had a ton of fun today, and are so blessed to have more and more extended family as the months continue! We're already planning our trip to Oklahoma and Texas sometime next summer to meet everyone else!
Here is Gavin being tortured by having all the food put in front of him... and this kid LOVES food.
Happy Thanksgiving!!
Here's the conversation Jason had on the phone this morning:
Garrett: "Happy Thanksgiving!!"
Jason: "Thanks Garrett."
Garrett: "We're going to Mammer and Papa's today."
Jason: "You are?"
Garrett: "Yes, and so are you!!"
Jason: "Oh really?"
Haha... I just thought it was funny, but maybe you had to be there listening to our 4 year old nephew tell us what we were doing today... even if he was right!
Apparently Garrett wouldn't call and tell anyone Happy Thanksgiving, and kept telling his mom he wanted Jason!! HAHA... so Jason is special. :)
Wednesday, November 26, 2008
Gas and Work
Well, I've now finished my first REALLY crazy week at work. Since it's only a 3 day week, I had to see all my clients on all three days... that's 12 sessions in three days, and then write all the documentation notes for all the sessions too. Definitely crazy... I drove around 200 miles yesterday, and used an entire tank of gas between yesterday and today.
Luckily, I got gas for $1.49 in Hendersonville tonight, so it only cost $19.59 to fill my gas tank! I can't remember the last time I filled my entire tank for under $20!! I was pretty excited about that!
Hopefully sometime I'll have some actual pictures to post on here... but tonight, you just get words and numbers...sorry. :)
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
Thanksgiving Turkeys on the ground
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
The Ins and Outs of My Job
Dayna said she wanted to know more about my job, so I thought I'd post it on here so everyone can see. Due to confidentiality stuff, I can't tell you much about my actual cases, but I can give you a general idea of what I do.
Every day is different, and I've been told several times by several different people that I managed to get hired at one of the hardest times of the year because of all the short weeks (from the holidays and whatnot), so I haven't been able to get into any sort of groove yet. Once I get into a groove, I'm sure I'll feel a bit more under control... but for now, I'm looking at it in a positive way by saying, I'm doing the hard first, so when it's easier, I'll really be under control!
Lately my days have been going from about 830 am to around 6 pm or so... depending on when my last scheduled session is. Today however, I got home at 5 pm because none of my families were answering their phones or calling me back! There's not much we can do when that happens, so I got caught up on my paperwork, got a bit more training from a few people on a few things, and headed home, since I have a feeling tomorrow will be busy seeing people!
I now have 4 cases, which is a full caseload (4-6 is, but they're being nice right now of course!), and we are required to see every family at least 3 times a week for hour long sessions. Then we have to write the family therapy note for each session, stating what we got accomplished and that sort of stuff. If it's not documented, it didn't happen... that's a HUGE motto around the office, so it's important to not forget to document things! A lot of this job is documentation, which doesn't really bother me as much as it bothers other people. Some days I'd almost rather be documenting things on the computer all day long instead of talking to people, but I don't get that choice. ;) We also stay in VERY close contact with the client's school, and probation officer if they have one. Usually Youth Villages is the last resort before a child is taken out of the home and put into DCS custody, or put in a group home or higher level of supervision, so we get the worst of the worst sometimes, but that just makes it a good challenge. Many of the things we do are with the parent, working on their parenting skills and teaching them how to implement rules, rewards, and consequences, and how to be consistent in doing so. We also help the kids learn how to handle their anger in different ways instead of just being verbally or physically aggressive... which can be a challenge! I had a kid almost curse me out the other day because I told his guardian to use the computer as a consequence if he doesn't do well in school... he wasn't happy about that, but I bet if she's consistent in keeping him off the computer, he'll start doing better at school!! Sometimes it's simple things like that that we take for granted, but that most of these families have never thought of because they were never taught proper parenting skills... they try to be the child's friend instead of parent, so we're there to correct that. We teach a lot of problem solving skills too... like "what could you have done differently in that situation" or "how could you have handled that differently", making them come up with alternatives to their actions, instead of just us telling them what to do and say.
But that's really all our job is about... we just had a new training today about a new technology that Youth Villages is piloting at the Nashville office. It's voice recording/voice recognition software, so we get a headset and digital voice recorder(the Olympus WS-110 if you want to look it up), and then we have software on our computers that will transcribe what we dictate. It takes a bit of time to learn how to do it, and to train your software to recognize you and the way you talk, but once you have it trained, it cuts your paperwork time in half at least, so I'm trying my hardest to learn it! It's pretty neat... it just sounds funny when you are talking into it because you have to say your punctuation, so if I wanted to say "Hello, this is Rachel.", I would have to say "hello cap that comma this is rachel cap that period". Sounds weird, doesn't it?! But once you train it for awhile by going into your computer and editing words and phrases, it remembers things, so you start not having to say "cap that" to capitalize things, and you don't always have to say periods and commas... but other punctuation like semicolons, colons, and question marks you still have to say. It should be interesting, but I'm excited to learn it to lower my documentation time! If you have the headset plugged into the computer, you can also use the software to dictate into ANY document, so I could dictate into MS Word, I can check my email, or do anything with it really. If you are really good at using it, you should be able to take away your keyboard and mouse and JUST use the voice recognition software to do everything. I doubt I will get that great at it, but I will at least be able to do my notes while I'm on the road! Like I said, they are piloting it in the Nashville office, so if we use it enough, the rest of YV (all of the states and the rest of TN) will be able to get it too... and YV is paying for it... no grants from anyone for it, but I think it's a good investment.
So that's my job in a nutshell, plus a few other soapboxes. I know it's kind of scattered, but my job is kind of scattered too!! Sorry no pictures... I don't take pictures at work! ;)
Sunday, November 16, 2008
Doggie Jingle Bells
While watching a rendition of this on an old episode of America's Funniest Home Videos, Taco was caught off guard and started barking at the tv. Once he realized that there were people on the tv and not dogs, but there was barking still... he watched the tv while turning his head sideways... I think he was confused. I wish I would have had my camera handy because he was watching tv for quite awhile after that... haha. Silly dog.
Thursday, November 13, 2008
Still Alive...
I just got home from our Youth Villages 12th Annual Employee Conference at the Memphis Hilton. This hotel is 27 floors and the second circular hotel I have ever stayed in. I quite like circular hotels for some reason, although most of the people I was there with were somewhat creeped out by the thought of a circular hotel and triangular rooms. Either way, it's a nice hotel. The conference was good, although they packed TONS of stuff into a very small amount of time, so they had us busy from 7 am to 11 pm each day. I learned quite a bit, not only about the company itself, but also about better ways to do my job. I'm excited to begin using all these new tools I learned. :)
There was a BUNCH of excitement, including the fire alarm going off at 830 am, requiring the evacuation of well over 1200 people. After THREE HOURS in the rain, we were finally able to re-enter the hotel. Turns out, someone was stupid enough to call in a bomb threat, so after the hotel was completely evacuated, the bomb squad and whoever else had to go to EVERY ROOM (all 27 floors of rooms) and make sure it was safe. I and several other people from my office went to Kroger's and then to breakfast at Burger King while we waited to hear that we could come back. After that... everything was thrown off for the rest of the day yesterday, but we still managed to get all the speakers in... there will just be a lot of sick people from standing in the rain for awhile!
So yeah, I'm still alive. :) I don't have any pictures because of my sweet tea vs. camera incident, however, my new camera came while I was gone, so I'll have pictures again soon!! YAY!!!
Friday, November 7, 2008
Come and gone...
Well, my second week of work has come and gone, although I kind of count it as my first week, since last week was all orientation in a classroom. Granted, a lot of this week was more OJT (on the job training) in a classroom on a computer, but I got to shadow some people as well. Anyway... I'm not overwhelmed yet... I think that will come either this coming week, or possibly the next week because our conference in Memphis is this week (Tuesday through Thursday). I got the information on my first case today, and Monday I will be getting all the information for my second case... so I'll have 2 families' lives in my hands... YIKES! That's when I get into the nitty gritty... and I'll learn A LOT. I learn best by doing, not by reading... so it'll come with time. I am definitely glad it's Friday though... a weekend without having to think about work, since I'm not on call this weekend.
In other news, I think I'm getting an ear infection... I had THE WORST headache yesterday, almost on the verge of a migraine... well, I'd categorize it as a migraine because it almost made me sick. I've never had a migraine, but I think that's probably what it would feel like... and today I woke up with a slightly sore throat... moreso that it's making itself known, not necessarily hurting all the time... and now tonight, my right ear (the ear that's always first to get an infection), it's making itself known... I'm hoping I can take some meds and head it off before it's a full blown infection. BLECH.
Wednesday, November 5, 2008
I got my second deer
I (Jason) went hunting again today to see if I could bag another one for meat or maybe a buck if I was lucky. It was a nice day cool and no wind. I took some pictures of the land near where I hunt so everyone can see leaves and the color and you see why this is my favorite time of year.


This is my second deer this season. I thought it was a doe when I shot it. But it's actually a buck and you can see its antlers just coming up. Had I know it was a young buck I wouldn't have shot it but the deer steaks will be good.


This is my second deer this season. I thought it was a doe when I shot it. But it's actually a buck and you can see its antlers just coming up. Had I know it was a young buck I wouldn't have shot it but the deer steaks will be good.From Rachel: Speaking of deer steaks... we had some good ones from the other deer for dinner tonight! YUM!!
Tuesday, November 4, 2008
Tagged twice...
Thanks Laska, for both of these tags.
then state 7 of the weirdest/quirkiest things about yourself.
then tag 7 people and leave a message on their blog so they know they've been tagged.
1. I think I might be addicted to breathsavers breath mints. Is it possible to be addicted to those?
2. I have to make the bed BEFORE I go to bed... as in, it needs to be perfectly flat and everything before I get in bed. And once we're in bed, I have to make sure the blankets are smooth and flat over the top of us or it really bugs me and I can't sleep. Yes, I've been known to reach over Jason to smooth out his side of the covers... it bugs him to death, but I'm a little OCD that way.
3. I'm very anal about my time management and organizing my schedule, but I can't seem to do the same with things in the house. Not that the house is a mess, but there is clutter everywhere... I got that from my mom.
4. I treat my dog like a kid. He's the only kid I have, so he's spoiled absolutely ROTTEN. (I don't know if that's really that quirky, but it is to me.)
5. I have a fear of the dark.... well, not the dark, but rather what may be IN the dark. I cannot sit in a dark room without my brain freaking me out by thinking about what may be looking at me. I always think there is a sniper getting ready to shoot me or something... so the blinds have to be closed. Maybe that's how I died in a past life?
6. I LOVE sewing... well at least the little bit of sewing that I know how to do. This normally isn't quirky for most females, but for me it's quirky because I NEVER had ANY interest in it when I was younger. It wasn't until I got married and needed to patch Jason's pants pockets that I decided I like to sew.
7. I am the only left-handed one in my family. With that also comes many other differences... I'm the only outgoing one, I'm the only social one, and I'm entering a field of counseling... which no one would ever expect. Sometimes I wonder if I was adopted, except that I look like all of my family!
So there's the first tag. I tag anyone who feels like doing this tag. I think most people that read my blog have already done it, but if you haven't, then consider yourself tagged! DO IT!
For those of you novice bloggers who don't know what being "tagged" means... it means you have to do whatever the post tells you to do. Laska did it, then she tagged her people (including me)... so yeah.
Rules are:
first state who tagged you.then state 7 of the weirdest/quirkiest things about yourself.
then tag 7 people and leave a message on their blog so they know they've been tagged.
1. I think I might be addicted to breathsavers breath mints. Is it possible to be addicted to those?
2. I have to make the bed BEFORE I go to bed... as in, it needs to be perfectly flat and everything before I get in bed. And once we're in bed, I have to make sure the blankets are smooth and flat over the top of us or it really bugs me and I can't sleep. Yes, I've been known to reach over Jason to smooth out his side of the covers... it bugs him to death, but I'm a little OCD that way.
3. I'm very anal about my time management and organizing my schedule, but I can't seem to do the same with things in the house. Not that the house is a mess, but there is clutter everywhere... I got that from my mom.
4. I treat my dog like a kid. He's the only kid I have, so he's spoiled absolutely ROTTEN. (I don't know if that's really that quirky, but it is to me.)
5. I have a fear of the dark.... well, not the dark, but rather what may be IN the dark. I cannot sit in a dark room without my brain freaking me out by thinking about what may be looking at me. I always think there is a sniper getting ready to shoot me or something... so the blinds have to be closed. Maybe that's how I died in a past life?
6. I LOVE sewing... well at least the little bit of sewing that I know how to do. This normally isn't quirky for most females, but for me it's quirky because I NEVER had ANY interest in it when I was younger. It wasn't until I got married and needed to patch Jason's pants pockets that I decided I like to sew.
7. I am the only left-handed one in my family. With that also comes many other differences... I'm the only outgoing one, I'm the only social one, and I'm entering a field of counseling... which no one would ever expect. Sometimes I wonder if I was adopted, except that I look like all of my family!
So there's the first tag. I tag anyone who feels like doing this tag. I think most people that read my blog have already done it, but if you haven't, then consider yourself tagged! DO IT!
Now here's the second one.
five things
5 things I was doing 10 years ago:
1. Getting my braces off
2. Finishing 8th grade/Starting 9th grade (yay for beginning high school!)
3. learning to play the oboe instead of staying with the saxophone
4. participating in track and field... well, moreso the field part
5. definitely no clue... I was a boring kid haha
5 things on my to-do list today: (or tomorrow....)
1. tonight: take the yard trash to the roadside so they can be picked up in the morning
2. go to work and participate in group for the first time
3. go to work and meet my first client--YIKES!
4. make a great dinner with the deer meat we now have...
5. get to bed at a decent time... I'm still boring lol
5 snacks I enjoy:
1. Tootsie Rolls
2. Pumpkin seeds
3. Mint ice cream (lately)
4. sugar cookies (it's that time of year)
5. Halloween candy
5 things I would do if I were a millionaire:
1. buy our dream house and lots of land for Jason to hunt on
2. donate to several charities
3. save so we can live off the interest :)
4. buy a great car (well duh, who doesn't want to do this!)
5. have an endless supply of scrapbook stuff!
5 places I have lived:
1. Moses Lake, WA
five things
5 things I was doing 10 years ago:
1. Getting my braces off
2. Finishing 8th grade/Starting 9th grade (yay for beginning high school!)
3. learning to play the oboe instead of staying with the saxophone
4. participating in track and field... well, moreso the field part
5. definitely no clue... I was a boring kid haha
5 things on my to-do list today: (or tomorrow....)
1. tonight: take the yard trash to the roadside so they can be picked up in the morning
2. go to work and participate in group for the first time
3. go to work and meet my first client--YIKES!
4. make a great dinner with the deer meat we now have...
5. get to bed at a decent time... I'm still boring lol
5 snacks I enjoy:
1. Tootsie Rolls
2. Pumpkin seeds
3. Mint ice cream (lately)
4. sugar cookies (it's that time of year)
5. Halloween candy
5 things I would do if I were a millionaire:
1. buy our dream house and lots of land for Jason to hunt on
2. donate to several charities
3. save so we can live off the interest :)
4. buy a great car (well duh, who doesn't want to do this!)
5. have an endless supply of scrapbook stuff!
5 places I have lived:
1. Moses Lake, WA
2. Hillsboro, OR
3. Tacoma, WA
4. University Place, WA
5. Lebanon, TN
5 jobs I've had:
1. In-Home Family Counselor
2. Juvenile Detention Officer
3. Server
4. Sales Associate at Polo Ralph Lauren
5. Red Carpet Club team member at PLU
5 people I tag:
1. Once again, anyone that hasn't done it already...
2. That
3. means
4. you!
5. DO IT!
3. Tacoma, WA
4. University Place, WA
5. Lebanon, TN
5 jobs I've had:
1. In-Home Family Counselor
2. Juvenile Detention Officer
3. Server
4. Sales Associate at Polo Ralph Lauren
5. Red Carpet Club team member at PLU
5 people I tag:
1. Once again, anyone that hasn't done it already...
2. That
3. means
4. you!
5. DO IT!
Sunday, November 2, 2008
Fried...
I'm now in the market for a new digital camera. I just spilled sweet tea ALL OVER mine and it no longer works correctly. It turns on, but the flash doesn't work, so I'm sure it's completely fried, and then if I try to take a picture, it turns itself off... and no, the battery isn't dead. GRR... that camera is only a year old... I'm so mad at myself!
So don't expect pictures for a little bit... I have to get up enough courage (and money) to get another one. I'm still hoping that I'll wake up tomorrow and it'll work correctly... but I don't think that's going to happen!
Saturday, November 1, 2008
Opening Day
Second post of the day...
Today is November 1... and therefore also the opening day of muzzleloader season for deer here in Tennessee. Despite the late night at the Kemp's last night, Jason woke up at 4:45 this morning to head to his lease. At 8:30, he called me and told me he shot a doe, but he still had to find her. Eventually, he found her... and here she is in the back of his pickup.
Next weekend Jason's goal is to get Josh a deer... it'll be his first ever, so we're all excited about getting him one!
Happy Halloween!
Last night Jason and I went over to Josh and Shannon's to take the boys trick-or-treating. We got off to a bit of a late start, so it was dark outside, but it was still a good time. Gavin was Darth Vader (he didn't want to wear his hat). He seemed pretty intrigued with his bucket.
Garrett was Buzz Lightyear. He was so excited Josh had to hold him back from running outside! Garrett kept asking "is it Halloween yet?" I guess he didn't realize the entire DAY was Halloween, not just when you go trick-or-treating!
I was trying to get a good picture of Garrett, but he was looking at his wings in the reflection from the glass door... oh well, you get the idea.
Here is Buzz Lightyear at his first house. He made sure to get candy for Gavin everywhere he went too.
Jason soon became Buzz Lightyear's best friend. The common statement was "come on Jason, let's go!" He had to run from house to house too... walking just wasn't fast enough!
Jason took Garrett through a little haunted house that one of the houses in the neighborhood creates every year. There is a chainsaw at the end of it that usually chases people out, but they don't do it with the little kids. When Jason and Garrett got out of the haunted house, Jason said "well that was boring..." and Garrett just said "where's the chainsaw man?" I think he was disappointed the chainsaw guy didn't chase him... he would have liked it.
Gavin had a great time in his stroller... he's one of the happiest babies I know... even when it's past his bedtime!
This was the best picture of both of the boys together. Garrett's attention span was a little short by the end of the night, and he wouldn't stop to take another picture after this one. Shannon was trying to fix Gavin's hat, but alas, you can't get boys to hold still very long!
So instead, I just took a picture of Gavin by himself. Like I said, he's a pretty happy kid, and this was at the end of the night right before they went to bed!

It was a fun night really, and we ended up getting some candy by default too. Garrett is only allowed to have certain kinds of candy, so Shannon made sure to fill a bag of candy for me that Garrett's not allowed to have anyway. :)
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